Monday, April 21, 2014
R: Rapacious (A-Z Blog Challenge: Evocative words)
The moral of the story: the appetites of women are dangerous.
Even in this generation, long past the first edition of Our Bodies Ourselves, and deeply entrenched in the pseudo-science of self esteem and positive body image, the appetites of women are under scrutiny.
Once, it was so unseemly for a woman to appear hungry that Scarlett O'Hara was asked to eat in her room before the party, where no men could see her stuffing her face. We've come a long way; I eat at picnics alongside the men now. But there's still an expectation that women will be daintier than men, both in girth and in appetites.
This extends into other kinds of appetite as well. A woman described as rapacious might also be called devouring or insatiable, predatory. In other stories, a succubus. While men might find such a woman fascinating, in stories she is never the wife, but always the lover, the temptress who must be put aside for virtue's sake. She inflames the senses, but not the mind or heart.
It's not "ladylike" to want so much, so greedily, and let it be known.
Then again, a little research tells me that rampion, that plant so coveted by Rapunzel's mother, has medicinal effects for inflammation. Maybe the poor woman was just hoping to keep her swelling down. Pregnancy can give you some serious cankles.
This post is part of the Blogging from A-Z Challenge.
Posted by Samantha Bryant at 7:00 AM
Labels: characters, women, words
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Women are to have appetities for everything...ReplyDelete
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Hi Samantha--new follower via IWSG. I was really intrigued by your post. Nicely written. Look forwarded to reading more from you :)ReplyDelete
thankfully so much has changed!ReplyDelete
Marlene at On Writing and Riding
You are an amazing wordsmith. It made me want to read Rapunzel and join women's movements! The kind of voice that can move mountains indeed. So much has changed and yet your post so aptly points out a woman is supposed to step back. Like the equal pay discussions of the day. LOVED IT! #AtoZchallenge ☮PeaceReplyDelete
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Thanks so much for the comment love! It's heartening to know someone reads and enjoys my words.ReplyDelete
An interesting craving to have while pregnant. My wife craved Wendy's burgers with our first child. How times have changed! :)ReplyDelete
It's also interesting to consider the expectations society has of women compared to men. We like to think so much has changed, but really it hasn't. We're just not as obvious.