A to Z: Indie Publishing: O is for Older Characters

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So one of the "different" things about my GenX romances is that the people falling in love are in their 40s and 50s. I've read a fair amount of romance in my life, and if you based your ideas about love on romance novels, you could easily come to believe that it only happens to people between 17 and 25 years old. 

I don't mean to denigrate those stories. I've LOVED lots of them. But, it seems like a pretty narrow band of human experience to explore when it comes to love and relationships. If things go well, there's a lot of life to enjoy after age 25. 

And, I'm not 17 to 25 years old anymore. In fact, one of MY CHILDREN is older than that! And I myself am living a second-chance romance with a man I married when I was 34. So many people in my life are finding love either for the first time, or second or third time, in their 40s and 50s. I've got a friend with a really active dating life in her 60s. 

Writing romance for older characters is the same and different as writing for younger ones. 

You can still get the fun of "he said/she said" chapters, using the alternating points of view to build in some fun for your readers who will know what both characters are thinking and feeling, even when they haven't told each other yet.  

The giddy bits and emotions can be very much the same as they would be for 20 year olds. Swooning still happens after thirty, y'all. 

On the other hand, your characters have history. They've probably loved and lost before. This isn't their first rodeo. So some of the kinds of situations that play well with younger characters make older ones seems TSTL (too stupid to live). 

A lot of time the angst and obstacles are more external than internal. People in their middle age kind of know what they want and what they don't want, and are more willing to communicate it, so what's standing in their way when it comes to love has to be something different. 

For Amanda, in Not Too Late, it's the idea of giving up her wandering life and staying put in one town--her hometown at that. She also has to consider whether she wants to deal with romance while she's in the middle of elder care for her mother. 

For Abby, in Acid Reign, it's realizing that steady and reliable doesn't have to mean boring. Abby's losing her best friend to cancer, too. Is this really the time for love? 

For Becca, in Ready or Not, it's giving another man a chance even though she's been burnt before. Besides, her daughter is leaving for NYC, leaving her to face an empty nest. Isn't that enough? 

I've really enjoyed writing these and my early readers are saying good things, so I'm hoping that romance for older characters is a concept that might really have some legs!